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Old 01-25-2008, 08:55 AM   #3 (permalink)
Cupicake
'Round and 'Round I Go....
 
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Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: New York, NY
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This day will pass....
I often still get resentful over my exrah not being there to help with any decisions at all or anything that need to be taken care of when he was actively using and we were still married. In a marriage you expect to be able to rely on your spouse when things get to be too much or if you need help in any area....decisions, fixing something, buying something, etc. When you can't you end up having to be the one to pick up the slack. That's a tough load to carry when you're doing all of that and taking care of normal day to day responsibilities.
Here's my quick fix: Take a breather for today. Step back away from the stress, it'll still be there for you tomorrow. For today find something you enjoy and forget about the rest. You deserve a break.
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