((((Teree))))
They really do know how to push our buttons to get us to engage! Mine still tries. Sometimes I fall for it, sometimes I don't! I remind myself I am work in progress.
Just wanted to throw this out there for ya. Not sure if you remember, but I had to leave before I was ready. But things were so bad, that I had to go early. There was lots of stuff to be worked out after. But, it was easier than I thought because I had peacefulness at night and on weekends not living in the same house. Things looked clearer and I was able to sort things out so much better. While it is easier said than done, try not to worry about the details...just take care of you, get to a peaceful place and the rest will work out later.
Hugs to you....