Queen a lot of good stuff stated already!
Pick yourself up and dust yourself off-for good this time if you are ready...
It stops when we stop! IMHO I see a lot of controlling still going on as well-
As long as we
engage it will always continue with anything in our lives-if we
dis-engage and take care of our own inventory and well being this is when life becomes easier....
Take care of you! I have found that wasting energy on others that refuse to do things for themselves is a waste of my precious time-if they want to help themselves and are serious about I will lend a supporting hand or ear! But until then......it is all about ME!
Queen