After dealing with my 2 addict sons, I think of jail as a happy place.
It gives me piece of mind.
They're fed.
Clothed.
Have somewhere warm to sleep.
Most of my most restful nights have been when they're in jail.
Try not to look into the future, he may not even have to go, who knows?
I also do that alot, always worrying about what could happen. It's a waste of our good energy.
Hugs to you.