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shutterbug · 12-16-2007, 01:43 AM

well so i filed a police report on the guy taking off with my debit card and pin number....one lucky break? They had stopped him last night (which i remembered him telling me) but they remembered too and had gotten all his info from him at that time....so they know EXACTLY who he is....and yes he is a disabled veteran. (at least that much of what he told me was true)

that's the good thing. they also know he's been arrested before and is on probation for drug charges (crank) ...which he told me he didn't do drugs, only drank on occasion.

The sad part to me tho? The loss of what i thought i'd found in him. He truely seemed to be more than i'd ever imagined finding. I kept telling myself he couldn't be for real....i just didn't tell myself it enough. We went walking about 4 blocks to Wal-mart, him holding my hand the whole way and talking about "when we get married some day...i want to go walking every morning."

He seemed to adore me...for my heart and for even this hideous body of mine. And yes, we had sex...unprotected and him not worrying about pulling out was my first major clue that he was up to no good. Not long after he said he had to go get his car back from the girl he'd loaned it to. I think the same friends that charged me $5 to bring us to my house (long story about my car) came and picked him back up...at some point he said they left him at Wal-mart so i told him to call a cab and see if he had enough of my cash to get a ride back here. Next thing i remember was him getting here and needing $9 more for the cab ride so i had to give my debit card ....and he somehow convienced me to still let him go after his car. Next, I got a call from him that he'd run out of gas and had to walk to the station where he needed to buy a gas can and gas and so he needed my pin number. I was half asleep and rattled it off, then asked him to check my balance for me. (DUMB and DUMB).

That was the last i heard from him. All-in-all with the "morning after pills" i had to buy when i came to my senses and realized what hapened, having to buy them with a check that will probably bounce since prolly drained my account, the cost of Lord only knows how much in cab rides or what else...I'll be AT LEAST -$200 (for a total loss of -$600 to -$700).

Anyway....i'm a SUCKER...and now a flat broke one at that.

12-16-2007, 01:43 AM	#2 (permalink)
shutterbug A picture's worth a 1000 words Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: With any luck, I'm lost in a view finder Posts: 2,947 Blog Entries: 5	well so i filed a police report on the guy taking off with my debit card and pin number....one lucky break? They had stopped him last night (which i remembered him telling me) but they remembered too and had gotten all his info from him at that time....so they know EXACTLY who he is....and yes he is a disabled veteran. (at least that much of what he told me was true) that's the good thing. they also know he's been arrested before and is on probation for drug charges (crank) ...which he told me he didn't do drugs, only drank on occasion. The sad part to me tho? The loss of what i thought i'd found in him. He truely seemed to be more than i'd ever imagined finding. I kept telling myself he couldn't be for real....i just didn't tell myself it enough. We went walking about 4 blocks to Wal-mart, him holding my hand the whole way and talking about "when we get married some day...i want to go walking every morning." He seemed to adore me...for my heart and for even this hideous body of mine. And yes, we had sex...unprotected and him not worrying about pulling out was my first major clue that he was up to no good. Not long after he said he had to go get his car back from the girl he'd loaned it to. I think the same friends that charged me $5 to bring us to my house (long story about my car) came and picked him back up...at some point he said they left him at Wal-mart so i told him to call a cab and see if he had enough of my cash to get a ride back here. Next thing i remember was him getting here and needing $9 more for the cab ride so i had to give my debit card ....and he somehow convienced me to still let him go after his car. Next, I got a call from him that he'd run out of gas and had to walk to the station where he needed to buy a gas can and gas and so he needed my pin number. I was half asleep and rattled it off, then asked him to check my balance for me. (DUMB and DUMB). That was the last i heard from him. All-in-all with the "morning after pills" i had to buy when i came to my senses and realized what hapened, having to buy them with a check that will probably bounce since prolly drained my account, the cost of Lord only knows how much in cab rides or what else...I'll be AT LEAST -$200 (for a total loss of -$600 to -$700). Anyway....i'm a SUCKER...and now a flat broke one at that. __________________ I'M FINE!! Fanatically Insecure Neuratic & Emotional Bipolar/Depression support: 1-800-950-NAMI(6264).