i do not harley know what to tell you that the others have not already said. this is very dangerous. i would not know how to handle this to b honest with you.your son is in some deep crap.i am so sorry for you & for him.maybe you should call his dad while he is there & talk to him about it & together talk with your son. i hope u have a good relationship with your ex. please keep your self safe above ANYTHING else.
welcome to S.R & keep coming back & let us know how u are.prayers for u & your son.