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Hi Jaimie,
Be strong and be careful. It is a good idea to always keep a healthy balance. Usually placing someone or being placed on a 'pedestal' is not healthy. Most of us aren't perfect. Should you become comfortable and happy in being your mom's favorite, when you fall off the pedestal, it will be a difficult and emotional for you. It sounds like you have been on an emotional rollercoaster most of your life, keep a safe distance from your mom.
My advice is to find balance, don't let your mom place you above your sisters. We are all equal, try to love everyone equally. Also be fair to yourself and distance yourself when needed.
Your mom expects love and respect eventhough she is not perfect, shouldn't she offer your sisters the same courtesy? Maybe that is part of why you are angry? It is a big step for your little sister to be clean and trying to make good decisions. You can't control your mom's behavior, yelling at her would just cause stress. Try to teach your sister unconditional love by example, not by trying to control your mom's actions.
I am happy for you and your little sister. Keep up the good work in college...
I hope this helps a little?!
XOXOX
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