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If you look at the other traits such as...
we're either over achvierers or we' don't do anything at all.
I have cycles of it..I'll over do everything and tried to
handle everything..depending on my cycle..6 months-a couple of
years. Then I'll go through a cycle of a burn out of not doing anything
at all. It stems from avioding confrontations or trying to keep the
peace or walking on eggshells. Bascailly dysfunctional. Always too
much or too little..not a balance.
And my motive for keeping that peace. Probably from all of the
chaos from my childhood and not wanting to have to pass that on
to my children or living a different life..But i do in an extreem manner
that's not healthy either.
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