If every time you drive a car you end up in a wreck, there are two definite ways to correct the problem.
1. You can NEVER drive again and you most assuredly will not get in a car wreck.
Or
2. You can identify what it is that is lacking in your driving skills and seek instruction for those shortcomings in driving skills and employ those lessons and you will avoid the car wrecks that way.
Step #2 allows you to participate in the world of driving (life) and just be aware of those behaviors that cause wrecks. Step#1 removes you from the world of driving and will most certainly keep you from enjoying all the options that driving (life) has to offer.
Driving see AAA
Drinking see AA
Jon