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Old 10-06-2007, 06:04 AM   #4 (permalink)
pjbs55
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Welcome to SR. You have found a great place for support. I am a mother of an addict. What your wife is doing is what most addicts do. You have to do everything you can to take care of you and your son. Let him work with you, just keep him away from his mom as much as you can. I know easier said than done. Please attend face to face meetings, Nar-Anon Al-Anon.
Remeber the 3 c's
1. YOU DID NOT CAUSE IT
2. YOU CAN NOT CONTROL IT
3. YOU CAN NOT CURE IT
Your wife will need to want to get help for herself and it does not seem like she is ready. Sorry to say.
More people will be here soon to help.
Hugs coming your way along with prayers for you and your family
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