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Old 09-23-2007, 08:11 PM
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kermit
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There is nothing you can do about her drinking. My husband was (is) a closet drinker, I say is because I'm not sure, I know he is still drinking, that I can tell. I asked my husband to leave after he drove on of our children while he was in no shape to do so. I found bottles everywhere for 3yrs, and did nothing to help MYSELF untill it was almost to late. He could have killed our 1st born. I will suggest allanon, they don't have the anwers but there you will get the support you need, I know how you are feeling, I used to think it was all in MY head... but after time things got bad real bad. I love my husband, well my X and I will never give up on him, I hope he will stop one day, I just wait from afar and take care of myself and my children.
There is nothing we can do for them, unless they ask for help.
Good luck and welcome this is a great palce.
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