Hi Pam,
LOL - I'm Journey, not Paulie. She's just one of my heroes and the person responsible for my signature!
This info came from a book called "Confusing Love with Obsession", by John D. Moore. I haven't read it yet, so I'm not sure how the book is. But I found that info pretty interesting and scary, since it hit pretty close to home for me too.
Hugs,
JG