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Welcome, Pauline, I am glad you found this forum, and sorry that you are going through all of this.
I hate to say it, but your AH is making all the excuses and promises an alcoholic does. He can't "cut back" on drinking -- he's an alcoholic. It's like a cocaine addict "Oh, I'll just sniff a little here and there." It just doesn't work that way unfortunately. My AH has plain out told me he's scared to death to live the rest of his life without another drop of alcohol. Funny -- "scared to death" while doesn't he realize that death may come sooner than he thinks if he keeps up this heavy drinking.
He may be cutting back now just to get you back, but who's to say once you are back with him, that the same old merry-go-round won't continue. I wish you peace, and maybe others will have more advice.
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