Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
I used to get all confused because I was listening to the words that came out of his mouth, but the actions were telling me something entirely different. When I stopped listening to the words and only paying attention to the actions, my confusion ceased.
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LaTeeDa you nailed it spot on with your response!! I used to be the same way. Nowadays when I start getting confused and unsure I just stop look at all the actions I have in front of me if it matches the words things are cool if not buh bye not going to waste my time.