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Originally Posted by anvilhead well let's review.....WHY are you guys split up again? WHAT was the compelling motive? do you have any visible tangible proof that ANYTHING has changed? HOW is your life today compared to how it was? WHO calls the shots now in your life.........? |
Lets!
Why? Because he quit drinking and is going at it on his own. The withdrawl symptoms are to overwhelming for him to deal with + be in a relationship. plus he probably cant give much to a relationship right now...

god that hurts to say again.
Motive? withdrawl symptoms, him saying hes not able to be in a commited relationship because of all that he has to deal with.
Proof anything has changed? no. I know he hasnt drank in 3 months though...
How is my life today? Lonely, I worry a lot, wondering, pondering, wanting, yearning....
Who calls the shots? If I called and spoke tohim again..he would call the shots..