"Some may disagree with me here on this, but I do believe that the addict loves as much as is possible, that somewhere inside there is a part of them that does know how much they hurt others, but that that love is not good or healthy for anyone because the addict never puts anything first outside of their DOC."
I couldn't agree more with the above statement, and i think for me my ex didn't love himself enough to love me.....unfortunately....
DFS...you are so right, no contact is the best way and the ONLY way, i know its soooo hard but each day does get better. My xrabf did some pretty crappy stuff to me and when we ended things he called and said he hoped to talk soon, that was 3 weeks ago and i didn't respond, there's nothing to say.
They chose their path (wrong way) and you deserve to be treated so much better, i personally would never disrespect my X or treat him badly. He chose to go away with his exgf while we were on a "break" and that to me is unacceptable and unforgivable... (((mka))) you will get through this, like another post mentioned, there is light at the end of this sad tunnel
