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Old 07-27-2007, 05:06 AM   #4 (permalink)
outonalimb
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((((mka))))

I know how you feel. I really do.

You have to give yourself time to grieve the end of your relationship...the death of a 'dream' that you had. It takes time but it does get easier...it does! Be patient and loving with yourself right now. Don't beat yourself up because you miss him.

Be careful about reaching out...because each time you jump back into the fray with the addict, it just prolongs the grieving process.

Hugs...
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