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Old 06-27-2007, 06:03 AM   #8 (permalink)
justjo
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I know how you feel. Many years of worry and now I have accepted it is up to her not me. I still worry most days that she is going to get through all of this, but my main concern is her well being and the strangers that she clings to. It seems that anyone who will enable her will do. Family doesnt matter to her when she has 'someone' to help her drink. The most frustrating part for me is this. the strange men she takes home and I worry if she is getting hurt but it is out of my control. She is back in rehab as I speak and at least I know she is somehow safe but I still worry about male predators.
You getting divorced and as time goes by you will be more able to distance yourself from him and IT... focus on your life, still keep him in your prayers and I wish you all the best and loveto you.
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