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Buy the alanon book or it may be available at your public library like it was mine.. i REad a lot of books on recovery. Keep going and find a "home group" that you relate to that becomes your meeting to attend regularly. Then talk to people at that mtg. after the mtg. Get a sponsor to work the steps with. I worked the steps mostly on my own. It took a few yrs. I have friends now that I met through alanon. Now I really understand the steps and I am able to apply them to my life. My favorite step is step 4. Going to the meeting and learning to express myself completely honestly helped a great deal and to listening to others. The collective wisdom is awesome.
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