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Old 05-27-2007, 02:00 AM   #4 (permalink)
Seeking Wisdom
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All you can do is to take care of yourself and your children. It always hurts when we realize we are helpless against this devastating and destructive addiction ... and we learn we must step aside before we are destroyed by its insanity as well. Blaming others is such classic addictive behavior ... my husband became so irrational that he pointed fingers at so many around him as having a drinking problem when they didn't ... including his own mother and father. He would do about anything to divert attention away from the real problem ... his irrational and obsessive relationship with alcohol that came before anyone or anything else.
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