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I know the feeling. I have held men at bay with my weight for a long time. It isn't that I don't trust THEM, but I didn't trust ME. I didn't want my fidelty tested... it was a big thing to me to be faithful, but I didn't trust myself. What a dillema!
It was very helpful to recognize that about me. So far, I am ok in that area.
Where I AM struggling, tho, is when people notice the weight loss.
Because SOMEWHERE in my dumb brain, I translate that "Oh, my - you are looking GOOOOOODD!! How much weight have you lost?" comment...
I translate that into: "Oh, my - you are looking GOOOOODDD!! You are so DONE losing weight!!"
Sheesh!
I am working on that part... wishing you the best!!! ((hugs))
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BigSis
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