[Juls]

Lilya,

You are trapped. Between doing doing something that is uncomfortable for you, and feeling like you should do something that someones else wants/expects of you.

These are good learning situations for us. I don't think there is a particularly right or wrong way to handle this. Either way, you will learn something about yourself.

If you go to the meeting, perhaps some resolution could come of it, or not. If you don't go you'll never know. Your right in that whatever this woman decides to do is her business, so don't get trapped into feeling guilty if you don't want to go the meeting that you caused her not to come to the groups anymore.

I do not want to advise you to go or not to go, but to examine your own feelings as pertains to each situation and see what you can learn from it.

Juls