I really appreciate you taking the time to answer my post, it means a lot. The worst part is the unknown but the good thing right now is that it looks like we both want to put this behind us as quickly as possible. I am like you, I am devastated and I did not think I would be alone at this point in my life. My dad passed away in 2003 and he was my rock, he was the most support you could ever ask for. Loosing him was worse than this but he pain is similar. I have to tell my self that I can get through this but a lot of the time everything looks really dark and lonely. She did little if any thing for me but at the very least she was there. Right now I am just spilling my guts because at this point I don't know what else to do. Thanks again and take care.
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Originally Posted by Bozo  Welcome to SR mental health forums. Everyone is different, but for me when a relationship ends, it is devastating emotionally. I think I have issues of abandonment from a long time ago as well as co dependent crap.
I can offer no advice only in time the pain passes and usually something better comes along. I know this is of no solice to you now, but try to hang in there and keep telling yourself you are going to be ok.. Please keep posting. |