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Old 05-05-2007, 09:16 AM   #5 (permalink)
BillJ
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Originally Posted by lilkim View Post
Why must he call me with this stuff? He's got another girl, Why must I get these calls? What does he want?
I'm gonna guess (based only on my own unhealthy behavior in past relationships) that he wants the security of knowing he still has his hooks in you. He may have another girl, but he can still pull you in. A sick ego relishes that kind of control.

I like Jimmy's "kill him with kindness" suggestion, but only if you feel strong enough to shake off those hooks.

Elsewise, get to a meeting, or with your sponsor, and let his girlfriend deal with him.
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