[karlee]

I have a 13 yr. niece that is impossible. She has been kicked out of every school
in the district because she mean to other kids..She is now in a special school for
kids with behavioral problems. She is not just mean but dangerous..

My brother and her mom did very hard drugs like
heroin and both are alcoholics..I am not trying to judge my sister-in-law..
I would probably used during my pregnancies, but I was hospitalized during most of my pregnancy with each of my kids..

My sister-in-law comes from a large family..Her entire family has banned her daughter
(my 13 yr. niece) from their home. Everyone in my family has also banned this child..
My husband and I had banned her from our home..

She sneaked her way into our home this weekend..I am really about to lose it with
this child..I try very hard to patient and understanding..It just that this child
seems to have no feelings..She just doesn't care..She will hurt another child and laugh about it..She has always been this way every since she was a baby..

I am wondering if alcohol and drugs tooken while she was in the womb may have effected her developing brain..Does this sound like a child that has fetal alchol syndrome? What can I do for her? My husband and I have often tooken care of her
because her parents were always gone partying..This is still very true..Perhaps her behavior has to do with her family life..Now I know that I haven't been the mom that I should be..However, my children do not harm others on purpose, start fires, and so on...I can imagine this child growing up and being a murderer. This is how bad her behavior is...I love her to pieces and will do just about anything to help her..
However, I am not willing to risk my family's life and so on...I am just so lost at
what to do with her..

Last, I could use prayers tonight..I am trying very hard not to get angry with her..
I would just take her home, but there is no one at home to watch her until tomorrow..