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Originally Posted by StarGazer6  I've also been writing down all of the bad stuff over the last few months so that I remember exactly how bad it has really been, it's too easy for me to forget and hold on to only the good. I read it often, like the other night when I was thinking ..well, maybe it's not that bad...but then I read the details I've written and it brings me back to the way I felt when I saw him. |
This type of thing was huge for me; it's insane how easy it is to forget the bad things that happened when the quacking starts. It's been about a year since I decided that things were not going to get any better and I needed to divorce him (after 25 years that was a hard decision). I don't have to read it much these days, but it sure kept me focused leading up to filing for divorce.
I am well into a divorce from my exah, and my main plan now is to have absolutely no contact with him. I don't answer the phone; I don't answer the door; if he comes here and won't leave I call 911. He is currently facing forty-odd counts of contempt, so I imagine he will be cooling his heels in the old county jail after we go to court on May 9. I didn't want to go this far, but he literally left me no other option. Of course, if he goes to jail it will be because I 'put him' there when he only wanted to 'talk' to me. *sigh*
quack, quack, quack......