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Actually Lilya,
It doesn't sound like an Addams family cause they had fun. You are not having fun.
I think one of the worst things, or one of the things that seems to bring out the worst in people, is dealing with a dying relative. You are the sane one, dealing with the insanity of those around you. You have to remember that you are powerless, over any of it. Over whether your family contradicts your actions, over whether your father is unhappy in his last days, and maybe over your emotions too at this point.
Watching a loved one die is so hard. I went through it with my mom. I felt so helpless. At least though it was pretty much only me having to make the decisions, and I did not have to contend with a bunch of dysfunctional relatives. Only one, my brother.
What are you concerns at this point in terms of your fathers care, do you think that your family will make wrong decisions. Usually it would be the wife that makes the decisions for the care of the husband.
Try to turn it over, to give yourself some peace of mind. Your father knows you love him, and will be at peace when he is released from this world.
Juls
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