love, cynay started a thread a few days ago about opinions on whether or not no contact works and why or why we haven't done no contact... it sounds like you're doing great, but i thought perhaps you might want to read everyone's thoughts on the issue! the overall consensus seems to be that it's the way to go!
i know how hard it can be. right now, i'm not doing absolutely no contact, but i'm having very very little! and i'm okay with that.