[karlee]

My husband has been talking to a female coworker about my issues.
When I told him this upsets me and that I feel this is wrong. He gets mad at me and says he is not doing anything wrong and that I am just being way too sensitive etc.... Is what he doing wrong? This female coworker used to be a nurse. So, he feels it is okay..Plus, whatever this woman tells him about rasing our kids is right..However, my opinions of raising or kids is wrong or he will not even listen to me..I beginning to feel that he thinks this woman is his wife..I know that he hasn't slept with her..However, I feel he has a emotional attachment to her that is like a wife and husband...I am feeling so betrayed..I wouldn't mind if he had talked to a close male friend about these things.

I have talked to female friends about issues I have had with him..However, to talk to someone of the opposite s*x about such things feels so wrong..I have binged and purged the last 2 days...I feel that my husband behavior has something to do with this..I just feel so very fat and ugly..If he was talking to a female doctor or couselor this would be different. Would you be angry about this? I feel that in a way he is cheating on me by doing this...

I am just so tire of him getting angry at me for things he does wrong. He is always twisting things around and making me feel guilty for his bad behavior..
He is always quick at pointing out all my wrongs and he is so perfect..He is always right no better what and I am always wrong..I get too scare to really push any issue with him..I just do not know how much more of this I can take. I feel him talking to this female coworker is just another way of him being emotionally abusive to me..Then again, perhaps it's just me...

Yesterday, I smelled gas. I had asked my husband to check the problem out. He said that it was something we couldn't afford to fix for a few months. I told him it had to be fix now because it could kill us..He refused to looked into the problem.Finally, I told him fine but me and the kids were going to my parents until it was fix..Then he decided to check the problem out. It was
our stove and was easily fixed..The thing that scares me was that he seemed to not care, if this would kill me or the kids.He has said things in the past and has reacted the same way in other issues in the past..Lately, he has been saying that I have been stealing his money or that he should just take his money and leave us. He had even complain so much about me wasting his money on medical and such and told me that he couldn't afford my antidepressants. That I went off them which was big mistake. I stopped taking one seizure medication because it costs $50 a month and my husband felt that it was too much.

I just do not know what to think anymore..I am thankful that he is a hard worker and willing to support his family.However, I feel like he does it because he feels obliged to do so and not because he cares or loves me and the kids..like it would be an embarrassment to him if he didn't..He is mad at me because my dad has said some things to him. Anyway, he will not help me with the kids, housework, yardwork, and so on...I have pretty much been a single parent, since we had our first child except for the fact that he does provide me with money...I do not feel loved and protected from my husband like a wife should feel..