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Originally Posted by appleblaster  ....its clear that you're resentful towards him (with good reason) so chances are you are not as good of a supply as you used to be to him. A supply of what you may ask? Sex, love, appreciation, joy, acceptance, friendship, money, everything. Alcoholics need a huge supply of these things and they will move to another supply once they exhaust the old one. Its a formula....any alcoholic will tell you....they consume. That's just what they do. If she will tolerate him and not yell then he will hang with her. If she gives him sex then he will hang with her. It could really be as innocent as friendship and his farce of her "understanding him" is really just his joy at finding a fresh supply. But if he is indeed cheating....that's just a dealbreaker and you don't really need a better reason to leave. |
i think this is some really great advice. follow your gut, what does it tell you? why are you really so afraid to leave?
you aren't getting what you deserve and you know it, so what can you do to make yourself happier?