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appleblaster · 04-18-2007, 02:30 PM

hey whataboutme. You put it into words so eloquently. You are very fortunate not to have children with this man but I know in some strange way that probably is not a comfort to you. It was not a comfort to me with my exabf (btw, i'm close to your age....36).

This sticky may help you to identify why you're "stuck" in this relationship that you know is not good for either of you.

Check it out:

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...tionships.html (Hooks which keep you boundary-less in relationships)

I am glad you are here. Thank you for reminding me of what i've defeated in my life and why I shouldn't miss him for one second. He is someone else's problem now. PM me if you would like to talk. Much love to you.

04-18-2007, 02:30 PM	#3 (permalink)
appleblaster up and out Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 176	hey whataboutme. You put it into words so eloquently. You are very fortunate not to have children with this man but I know in some strange way that probably is not a comfort to you. It was not a comfort to me with my exabf (btw, i'm close to your age....36). This sticky may help you to identify why you're "stuck" in this relationship that you know is not good for either of you. Check it out: http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...tionships.html (Hooks which keep you boundary-less in relationships) I am glad you are here. Thank you for reminding me of what i've defeated in my life and why I shouldn't miss him for one second. He is someone else's problem now. PM me if you would like to talk. Much love to you. __________________ Life is too short to spend your time with boat anchors.