[Paulie]

The dynamics of a mother and daughter relationship are very difficult sometimes. And for me I have a hard time with exactly what you said MG, her adjusting to my changing. My mom enabled me for years and when she tries now, I get annoyed, then I feel bad, then annoyed, it is a difficult thing.

Amy what you said is so right, we have to accept them how they are. My mom does not drink but she is codependent and does not think she is, she is just helping, ya know. But that is who she is, I can't change her, only me.