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Old 04-12-2007, 06:23 AM
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mallowcup
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This can become dangerous. I know that no matter how you try to appease him, your contact with the outside world will get smaller and smaller until you don't leave the house. You go out praying that no one speaks to you because it leads to a hour long explanation. This is a way to isolate you, make you feel bad for having someone say hello.
I would leave, fast and quietly.
This is important. He will continue to do this because he can feel his own power. He will kick it up a knotch and yo could get hurt.
No matter what you do, he won't change and the situation grows in its potential for true danger for you.
Has anything you've done so far to appease him made things better or worse.
You are an adult woman not an obedient dog.
I wouldn not discuss it or tip him off, I'd leave and sever contact.
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