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Old 04-03-2007, 09:33 AM   #3 (permalink)
laurie6781
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Like manipulating a new person to see or do some thing they should be doing.
Taz I beg to differ with your sponsor. That is not in the BB. No where in the BB does it tell us to manipulate for the good of someone else.

When working with another, we share our ES&H and let it be. It is up to the individual to decide what they will do. There are no "Shoulds" for others. The only one I can change is ME.

I have never seen manipulation as a defect I would want to keep. Now my bullheadedness and stubborness, YES. Over the years I have been able to turn that into tenacity. The tenacity to complete what I start, lol. It's made a big difference in this alkie's life.

Please remember Taz, your sponsor is just another Human Being..............................when something doesn't sound right to your ears, ask. Ask others if need be, and, of course, go read the BB some more and see if you can find it in there.

J M H O

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