Thanks guys...I have done all I can do short of grabbing him and laying one on him
Last week, I told him in an e-mail that I liked him and would enjoy getting to know him better ...so if he wanted to go out...all he needed to do was ask. The next day was when he flirted with me by leaning up against me...as if to squish me. I took that as a great sign and was happy and thought he would ask me out within the week. He didn't. By Thursday, I withdrew from my usual joking with him and even went so far as to avoid him. Friday...he asked me why I was grumpy...and he basically ended up leaving work that day in a down mood...as I eluded to a couple of his jokes hurting my feelings.
I then sent him a message blatently telling him I was sorry and that I was attracted to him even though he's a co-worker and a natural flirt and even though I knew I shouldn't ...that I couldnt' help it. I told him..."don't mind the stupid girl."
That night, he messaged be back saying he was drunk, that he would write me today and that I wasn't stupid.
2 things: 1. the fact that he was drunk....not a good statement for a codie to hear from a guy she is hoping is "healthy" minded. I mean....the last thing I want is to get involved with someone who could end up turning out to become an alcoholic later on! 2. A little while ago...I saw he had been online...and yet he didn't write me as he said he would....so...i'm left feeling even stupider.