DaVinci2 - this is a direct quote from the official Paxil site (SmithKline Beecham):
Alcohol: Although PAXIL has not been shown to increase the impairment of mental and motor skills caused by alcohol, patients should be advised to avoid alcohol while taking PAXIL.
If you're looking for someone to tell you it's okay to drink any amount of alcohol while taking Paxil, you're out of luck. Several members have answered you regarding this issue and can't make it any plainer. If you chose to drink, you do so at your own risk. If you are concerned to this degree then it would be smart to err on the side of caution and not drink.