[Bozo]

I cant remember, did you post on this topic earlier, like about a month ago or something?

I mean like yeah you got a lot going on, but a lot of it just seems to be personality flaws, like people pleasing, low self esteem, paranoid other people are talking about us behind our backs and putting us down and of course insecurity and the fear of abandonment.

I have had all of the above and until I stopped drinking and became active in an AA program(teaches you how to live life on lifes terms), I had the same crap floating around in my head that you do.

Do yourself a favor. Forget about what other people think of you. This is the first step in removing yourself from the role of victim. And did you ever stop to think that maybe you are just shy when it comes to hanging around other people, I know I am and I am the kind of a guy that likes to put the front on as well.

I wish you well, you are young and you have time, start now, I think you are going to be OK. Mike