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GingerM~ THANK YOU! as always, for the wonderful advice. I think I understand what you mean by being "normal" vs. "healthy".....and thats just my problem.....when Im around my dad I loose all sense of "what is healthy for me?" I let myself be manipulated and abused by him & I dont even realize its happening, ya know? Wheras in other situations, with people other than my dad....I think Im getting pretty good at making healthy decisions formyself. Its just when Im around him--the man who seems to be the root of all my fears---that I loose control and revert back to my old ways. I dont know how to get around this? My mom suggested I avoid him as much as possible until I am stronger?? I dont know.....
Thanks again for listening and for the advice :o)
Much love~Stephanie
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