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cubapip1977 · 02-22-2007, 06:36 AM

I usually post in the friends and family section of this site but I think you can offer insight that I need. My husband was addicted to oxycotin. He went into detox and has been home for almost 2 weeks. Before going to the hospital I busted him having an online relationship with a woman from our hometown. He keeps apologizing over and over and if I hear the words "I'm sorry" one more time I am going to scream!! He wants to stay together and work things out and I am not sure what I want. We have been married for over 12 years and have three children. I do not want to be that woman that checks up on her husbands every move. When I look at the cell bill and there is a number I don't know I assume the worst. I do not understand why this woman made him feel "so young, you are incredible and I want to be with you." How do I get past this anger that keeps coming out in me? My self esteem has been shot down big time!! Why would he do something like this? And oh the lies, he lied about everything!!!
Another question to any man that has been addicted to oxycotin, Does this affect your ability to keep an erection? If not, I guess that is just one more kick in the stomach. Lost, hurt, and confused. Please Help!!

02-22-2007, 06:36 AM	#1 (permalink)
cubapip1977 Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: midwest Posts: 11	Please help me understand!! I usually post in the friends and family section of this site but I think you can offer insight that I need. My husband was addicted to oxycotin. He went into detox and has been home for almost 2 weeks. Before going to the hospital I busted him having an online relationship with a woman from our hometown. He keeps apologizing over and over and if I hear the words "I'm sorry" one more time I am going to scream!! He wants to stay together and work things out and I am not sure what I want. We have been married for over 12 years and have three children. I do not want to be that woman that checks up on her husbands every move. When I look at the cell bill and there is a number I don't know I assume the worst. I do not understand why this woman made him feel "so young, you are incredible and I want to be with you." How do I get past this anger that keeps coming out in me? My self esteem has been shot down big time!! Why would he do something like this? And oh the lies, he lied about everything!!! Another question to any man that has been addicted to oxycotin, Does this affect your ability to keep an erection? If not, I guess that is just one more kick in the stomach. Lost, hurt, and confused. Please Help!!