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Hi, sadforthem...
First off, have you and your wife seen a marriage counselor yet? Do you have a desire to make your relationship work, or is it truly finished? If it's done, the next thing for you to know is that your kids are probably very scared that they will lose you, too. You must strive to participate in their lives, even if you're not living with them. Call them all the time, attend their school functions, see them whenever you can. Even if/when you meet someone new. Your kids should always be your first priority. I hope that you and your wife can overcome any anger or hard feelings in order to make this transition as seamless as possible for the sake of your kids. Good luck...
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