[msxsadie]

From a former teenage drug addict:

I think he's being honest when he says he needs help. And there are a lot of ways to give him a hand without disabling him. I can't say, 'be understanding', because obviously you're not HIM. But be loving, be caring. Withdrawal's the most dramatic part - but not the hardest. Give him tough love. Take him to NA by his hair if you have to. Sit down with him and make him work the twelve steps. And don't cover up for him, it's only going to make it worse for everyone around you. Make him go back to school or get a job once he's sober. And listen to him, let him know you love him so much you'll be harsh if you have to.

I hope I was of any help. =) Keep on, hun.