Hi Lady, we have the same picture...
I´m sorry to hear about your accident. That´s a scary experience and it takes time to heal mentally. Try to be good to yourself.
Juls is right, it´s best to take it one day at a time. I´ve found in situations like this, things simply become too overwhelming and then I try to take one problem and do something constructive about it. You have a lot on your plate right now, but try not to juggle too many balls at once. Take one problem and look at it, and the other things won´t seem so unmanagable.
I wish you hope and courage to get throught this dark moment, but it will pass.
Let us know how you´re doing and remember, when overwhelming emotions suffocate us we don´t see things in perspective. Take it slow and keep it simple.
My thoughts are with you,