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I agree. But the making up part is essential.
In my growing up family, my folks held grudges for days. Then somehow, they made up. We never saw that part but we heard the yelling and screaming. It took me years to learn not to hold grudges.
Now we talk a lot and try hard to say "I forgive you" or "It's okay. " we're huggy too. That helps a lot. Even if things are haywire we can count on talking about it in our family. That has been a life saver.
Mamabear
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