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Resentment is the number one offender
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So much truth there.
But yeah, like others have pointed out, it's gonna take time. Just do what you have to do to stay sober. Go to meetings, and don't drink between meetings.
When you get to your 4th step (and 5th) these resentments will go away. This is by realizing that:
1. People are not perfect. They too have character defects. We learn to forgive them.
2. We usually have a large part that we played in our resentments. That is, we are rarely, if ever, victimized.
Hang in there, it gets better. Then it gets great.