We've all been there! Same story differant A.
In al-anon they say to go on w/your life don't let it affect you.
but look you had to call in sick to your job, so it does affect you in some way or another.
Since I left my A I have yet to call in sick for work go figure!
Think about it do you want to do prison visits? I've done them and I'm not sure if you have but its not fun.
Whatever you decide I wish you well, but PLEASE put yourself 1st.