I'm sorry you are going thru all of this TigerEyes! My husband has stolen from me also. Took my engagement ring from my first husband & traded it for some dope. Tried to fabricate a story with his buddy so I would think the buddy's girlfriend took the ring. I knew they were lying. When my husband was in rehab, I asked him about my ring. He just held his head down & wouldn't look at me. Finally he told me he was jealous of my first husband & didn't want me to have anything that reminded me of him. I never really realized my husband was the jealous type. Anyway, he has taken hundreds of dollars out of our bank account until I took his name off the account. Addicts are not above stealing from anyone, including THEMSELVES!!!
I hope things get better for you!