liddy:
I guess the reason I spent 15 years with my thiq-headed individual, is that he was so completely, totaly, convincing that what was going on was perfectly fine.
He had ME convinced for years that everyone and everything else was the problem, not him, despite mounting evidence to the contrary.
I finally realized that he was able to be so convincing because he truly believed some of the nonsense that was comming out of his mouth.
If there is some "bad wiring" in the neurotransmitters of these people, some kind of medical explaination, then it makes it easier for me to stop trying to make sense of the nonsense.
Especially when I see him being soooooooo charming around other people ......... that's pretty hard to take.