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laurie6781 · 11-12-2006, 09:56 PM

You know Gaz, I found that I had to live alone for quite sometime to learn how to like myself and then love myself.

I realized that a relationship was not going to fix me. As I gained self-worth living alone and started liking myself, I found myself picking different partners than I had ever picked before. Those partners were reflecting my insides.

Possibly it is time for you to get some counselling and work on you. Once you feel better about you, you will find yourself picking different girls than you now pick.

I couldn't fix my self worth from the outside, it was an inside job. I know many this has worked for, maybe it's time to give it a try.

J M H O

Love and hugs,

11-12-2006, 09:56 PM	#7 (permalink)
laurie6781 Belgian Sheepdog Adictee Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: In Today Posts: 4,648	You know Gaz, I found that I had to live alone for quite sometime to learn how to like myself and then love myself. I realized that a relationship was not going to fix me. As I gained self-worth living alone and started liking myself, I found myself picking different partners than I had ever picked before. Those partners were reflecting my insides. Possibly it is time for you to get some counselling and work on you. Once you feel better about you, you will find yourself picking different girls than you now pick. I couldn't fix my self worth from the outside, it was an inside job. I know many this has worked for, maybe it's time to give it a try. J M H O Love and hugs, __________________ God Bless You All As You Trudge The Road Of Happy Destiny (especially when you trudgin thru alligators up to your butt)