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((((pam)))) What a difficult position to be in.
Only you can decide when enough is enough. But in my own expierence, no one is going to change when there is no reason to. I read a post one of my first weeks here that was a huge help to me, and helped me to realize that if I loved my family member, I had to make them face the consquences of their choices. I had to let him hit rock bottom, and let him choose recovery.
I don't know how to add links to this post, but I would strongly recommend you go to the family and friends/Nar-anon posts and read some of the stickys there.
__________________ Jessica  "You can have a perfectly normal life.....
if you accept the fact that your life will never be perfectly normal" You laugh because I am different...I laugh because you are all the same |