[Bozo]

i dont think you or I or anyone can fully understand what happens in a persons mind and plans get cancelled. Please try not to be angry with him, I know because I have done the same thing myself and have had the whole family upset with me.

I cannot explain it, but sometimes just the thought of being around a large group of people, brings on alternating feelings or panic and depression.

And yes, at its worst, it can cause a person to freeze up literally and be unable to even go to a store.

Ive gotten better because I realize when it is happening and I know I can fight through the fear/depression and still go on with what I was doing.

I dont have much in the way of words of wisdom, but I do wish you the best, and I believe it is never a good idea to push anyone who is not ready to push themselves, just be there for him. like you have been. you are a good sister.